change your shirt. try out different meetings.
for me, i go to meetings for my own recovery... why other people are there is not my business.
now, while i fervently hope that everyone in the rooms gets a recovery program going, whether they do or don't, whether they want to be there or have to be there, whatever... i can't let that affect my own recovery. i know why i'm there, and my business is the only thing in life i can control. for everything else, i ask for the serenity to accept it, and move on with my own recovery...