I haven't replied to my son's last text message. And I am going to ignore all messages from now on. It isn't easy to ignore him but I am going to exercise tough love here. I sent a message to his father this evening too. I told him what I had decided to do and made the suggestion he exercised tough love too in order to help our son to straighten out. I won't get a reply and he'll probably delete without reading but I tried. I am withdrawing from this drama. At least for a few months, maybe a year and maybe longer. However long it takes.... one day at a time for now.