Originally Posted by
LosingMyMind 
I do not feel that this person he has become is the real person that he is. I still see the man I fell madly in love with and continue to fall in love with him every time he comes home to me.
But this is him. Sure, you can rationalize it away by hanging onto the guy you thought he was, but hon, this is who he is now. How much time do you want to spend waiting for something you may never see again? How much of your life do you want to give up for what may be nothing but a fantasy?