Hi Honeypig,
I am grateful for your advice but I feel I should clarify myself in regards to seeing my partners councillor.
I understand the position he is in, I know his history. The reasons for me wanting to see her is to get advice on what I can do for me and for him that will be the most relevant and helpful advice. My councillor can offer help but I do not feel all of her advice will be the most helpful as she is only seeing one side of the story.
I also think that perhaps my partners councillor seeing my side and my recount of things could also help her to treat my partner in the best way.