When I say "help him" I mean he is hoping for me to solve the problem of him basically being homeless if/when we go back home (as his mum wont take him in) My dad certainly wont take him in and i dont see why he should (he will take me as Im not a headache to him) My husband is saying "i will have to live on the streets blah blah blah" Nobody is forcing him to give up work, hes not being fired, hes good at his job, but he just sees one option and that quit work and go "home" wherever home is as hes not really got one. He sees it my responsibility to sort us out a home etc, but i dont think it should be - should it? Hes really got no friends, hardly any family but he has pushed everyone away over the yrs. I kinda feel I "have to help him" as im the only thing hes got, but now im so fed up of him I dont wanna help him anymore