Being able to enjoy peace and quiet when I come home from work.
Getting a £200+ bill at the vets and not flinching because
I've been able to put money aside for these things 
On a related note, being able to look at my bank balance without fear.
Being able to sleep peacefully at night in my new, non p*** stained bed.
Gradually replacing all my old, worn out clothes and being able to wear them without negative and insulting comments.
Having a few bottles of my favourite cider in the house, not hidden in my car, and knowing they'll be there when I decide to drink them, even if that takes me weeks.