Originally Posted by
goodstitch 
I knew I didn't want "this". Nobody dreams of "this". I just kept hoping I could help him get better, but I couldn't. I had absolutely no say in the matter.
GS
Yep, let go or be dragged. This is going to get worse. Alcoholism is progressive. So, you can take care of yourself and let go of trying to control or fix him, or be dragged down to hell with him. I dunno about you, but I think I'd choose my life and my sanity over the alcoholic crazy train any day.