I'm sorry that he's blaming you. I would think it's manipulation. My husband might want to leave me also. It's his choice. We are high-school sweethearts.... so the statistics aren't in our favor. The first time I found out he was using I threw him out. 8 months l8r he goes to jail.. sober up and admits heroin. (I thought only pills) at that time. He came home after jail, told me he was going to slip and we discussed options. He moved to Oklahoma for 6 months then came home, relapsed, went back to Oklahoma being able to stay sober away from his sister, brother in law, brother and father who all use opiates and abuse them. Then! After all th as t time goes back try o jail and gera 5 years probation for a charge he got but wasn't perused by the police until 2 years l8r. Incident was Jan. 2010...Police charged him. May 2012. Me and the kids can live without him but we do love him.
