Keepitreal, You are stronger than you think you are. You are on the right track that you have decided to separate from an active addict. There is nothing you can do to help him or to love him into recovery (if that was true most of us here would not be here). Addicts lose the power to listen to words (they only listen to "action") - you need to do the same, don't listen to his words, watch for his actions.