An idea or two for ya......go to your meetings and volunteer being of service ( make the coffee,be the greeter,stay after and listen to one who needs to be heard,or ask someone if they'd like to go for coffee or ice cream). I now know that being of service to others, in whatever fashion, gets me out of my pity party,out of my way, and has opened the doors to lots of great things. You didn't mention if you're doing the Steps or have a Sponsor. Bored? Just an idea. :-D. Bobbi