Originally Posted by
endlesspatience 
Midnight Blue.
Thanks for your support. As I just said to Lulu I have left home now and come to work. So there's no booze here. It's really bad because I became engaged to a woman earlier this year and although I told her I have a gay past, I claimed that it was all over and I was no longer interested in men.
As hard as it may be, I think your fiance deserves to be told the truth. Marriage is such a big commitment for you both, and I don't think it would be fair or right to allow her to make that commitment without her knowing this went on. If you don't give her the choice what to do then you're just fooling her into a continued relationship, and that's no basis for marriage.
Please put her first in this - because that's what a good loving marriage itself requires.
Sorry to be tough - but marriage is such an important commitment for you both, and it's a commitment that must be based on honesty.
Keeping you both in prayer.
Michael