Originally Posted by m1k3

My problem with this article is it is written from the perspective of helping the alcoholic.

The whole positive reinforcement thing may or may not help with the A's behavior I can positively say it will reinforce my codie behavior. Because when I am using positive reinforcement with my A I am focusing on them and their behavior and their recovery and I am not focusing on mine.

No thanks, I've done that enough already. I'll be selfish and focus on me because the only recovery I have any control over is mine.

Your friend,