Originally Posted by
littlefish 
My sponsor informed me in the beginning that she would be discussing me and my step work, for advice and direction, with her own sponsor and if that was okay with me. It was, and it felt interesting knowing that occasionally there was not one but two people trying to drag me into the lifeboat.
I agree here. If my sponsor asked me before hand if it is okay that she look for direction from her sponsor then I would have no issue. I still would not want her sponsor walking up to me and saying anything. I would feel uncomfortable. Why? I am not sure and maybe that is something I need to look at. I should be open to all teachers if I am willing but...It still would bother me.
I guess it depends on what was discussed. If it was in a general way, then okay but if she mentioned or exposed specific items I told her then I would be crushed.