Originally Posted by Freddiejay

In some meetings people come across as less then flexible but that's just it you're dealing with people and we all are subject to making mistakes. I personally don't like the cookie cutter approach at some of these meetings but I don't take it personal, I take from it what I can and let the rest go.theres a saying ' if it don't apply let it fly!' What I get from meetings is that there are people like me there and hearing our common struggles gives us a bond, I guess if I looked at how different we are I may not enjoy them as much but that's not why I'm there. The steps are for me, I would have loved working the steps if I had never touched a drink or drug, they make me look myself squarely, examine my motives, right my wrongs and put others ahead of me. I can understand that the program isn't for everyone but its been great to me!