Why can't I let this go? He's not speaking to me and I made the decision but its on my heart and mind all the time. Talked to his stepdad at church and he's been spending a lot of time with his real dad. Was seeing me hindering his recovery? I was supportive and positive. Anyone dealt with the disappearing act this long? From what everyone said he would contact me again but maybe this is something different. I never get textbook scenarios happen to me. It's always what you would never expect to happen.