Hi Ripper-
Rational Recovery is what has worked for me. It taught me the tools I needed to stay away from alcohol. However, I am a firm believer in that no program will work if you are not done and determined to quit.
My advice is leave him a copy of Rational Recovery on the counter on your way out the door. I he really wants to quit well then its a pretty simple program. Take care of you first.
Jess