Birthday has been great!! Of course no word from him but word from the inside says he's not the same person he was when he got out of rehab. Lately he's been lazy and sleeping and eating a lot more. He doesn't help around the house and snaps and his mom and stepdad. Apparently the family is worried something isn't right so I believe he may be using again. This isn't the life I want for my daughter or me. His parents keeping hoping its just a phase but I think he hit a 3 month slump. I've decided to step back even if he tries to contact me. I shouldn't put my daughter in such a horrible situation with mood swings and the unknowing. I wish him the best but I'm letting go.