Fantastic, LeSigh. It's all on you to GROW and FLOURISH in this life; it's not ever someone else's responsibility. Nor should they have the power to prevent it, real or imagined. (****note to SELF!!!!!!*****)
I am going to sing again - I have a life-long passion for choral music and singing in small ensembles, and I have let that lie dormant too long, while fretting over ABF (and other people's needs).