Originally Posted by
fedupbeyondall 
Well, it seems I've been thinking about boundaries all wrong. With this new information I think I will better be able to set them and have my plans on how to deal with them when that occurs.
Thank God for SR, is all I can say. I can only imagine the hell I would continue to be stuck in if it weren't for findig this site and being able to learn from everyone elses experiences.
I hear you my Friend! When RAH started recovery i was so, so lost I spent about 8 months reading, reading, reading here at SR before ever signing up with a username & sharing a word. It felt like my BASIC training for co-dependents.
