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Old 07-30-2013, 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted by lizatola View Post
I reminded him of the time back in April when he decided to hug me(nice gesture at first) then started to grab my rear and whispered in my ear, "I know you don't like me touching you but I realized I can go ahead and do it any way." He then kept doing it all day and grabbed my chest, too, or rubbed up against me. I called my sponsor and she told me to ignore him and by the next day the behavior had stopped. I told him that I knew he was challenging me then and that I was pissed and felt he was being aggressive. He agreed and smirked a bit about it and said, "Yes, I was challenging you. Hey, I haven't had sex for a year and you're MY WIFE."
This is a form of sexual assault (in NJ, it would be "criminal sexual contact" and it is a CRIME, as well as a basis for a restraining order).

This is, indeed, creepy stuff and out-and-out abuse.
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