Tuffgirl…your post had me laughing. It was a simple mistake no matter what your conscience or subconscious was thinking. I’ve had those feelings too and am getting stronger at warding them off day by day. I figure worst case scenario (say you bumped into him somewhere) you could simply say, sorry, I butt dialed you. If he doesn't leave you alone you can add, I need you to get off my butt (just kidding, but thought you might get a laugh)
Truth is, I would quite possibly say something like that with full sarcasm!
"What doesn't kill us makes us stronger..."