Tuffgirl, I agree with everyone is saying, probably best to delete message, delete contact .
BUT for myself, personally I would probably listen to the message. It's been said I have more balls than brains.........
It doesn't mean you have to respond.
It's been over 7 years since my ex fiance and I broke up, his # is still in my phone, why? I cannot explain, it just is.......... in that 7 years I have only called him once with some really good news. Why did I call him then? Seemed like the best thing to do at the time............
I've mentioned this before, but we were at a mutual friends funeral a couple years ago, we talked civilly, he did apologize for ending the engagement, he wanted us to go somewhere together so he could explain, at the time I just could not do that..... fast forward three years, I would be just curious enough to want to know....... not that it matters anymore, ( and that may be answer, it just doesn't hurt/ effect me, like it used to)
Do what you have to do to keep yourself on track.......