tell me why does everyone that goes to aa, think its the only way to get sober.
They don’t. I’m in AA and I do not believe this. There are also lots of AA folks on this site who regularly state that AA is not the only way. Hence the premise of your question is false. Perhaps if you are on this site longer, or become more familiar with AA, this will become apparent to you.
News flash…. The agnostic groups mentioned in the link from the above post are alive and well and calling themselves AA groups! In fact there seem to be 5 different agnostic AA groups presently in Toronto. Here is more info if you are in the Toronto area. Note that two of the meetings are in a church!
GTA Agnostic AA Meetings - AA Toronto Agnostics
Let’s be fair. There are hundreds if not thousands of agnostic groups in AA.
It’s been my experience that agnostics and atheists are very well tolerated in AA. If anything, the converse generally seems to be true. Several posts in this thread being good examples of that.