Being a man is not what you are but who you are. I am 6'6" around 260lbs and most people say that their first impression of me is they are intimedated. But I am known among my friends as the gentle giant. I ride a big ol' Harley and also like to watch those movies on Hallmark that needs tissues. I love to garden and watch mixed martial arts on TV. What is important is that you are comfortable with who you are. It really doesnt matter is and is really nobody's business. I have tried for a long time being a fixer and thought it a noble calling. It wasnt until after I was on this site that I realized that all I was was an enabler. This is my biggest thing I work on. Of course I want people to like me. Of course I want to be noticed for the things I and accomplish. But at the end of the day what is most important is looking in the mirrot and being ok with what is looking back.
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