Actually, TG, in Alaska, that makes you extremely desirable wife material. I'll never forget when AXH got compliments from guys who had been driving by our house and saw me out shoveling the four feet of snow that had fallen.
"DAMN good wife you got there, mate!"
Fitting into stereotypes has never really been my thing.
Yeah, I never understood that either -- why your sexual preference should have anything to do with your other interests. It's not like there's an automatic tie between being attracted to men and having a great fashion sense or liking interior decorating -- I'm a real damn good example of that!