MrN10A, 20 months sober? You are
FANTASTIC. Congratulations. Nowhere in the bigbook does it say you can't date until you've been sober for 1 year, and I've wondered where that came from. Try not to put yourself in a position to get screwed over by other people the best you can, and stay away from those that do screw you over. As far as the girls go, well, you'll have to figure that out for yourself buddy. Good luck and rootin for ya.
