I had a miscarriage about 10 weeks along and that was hard enough to deal with but after my daughter was born and before my son was born there was a stillborn at 35 weeks along when you think you are home free. You arent home free til the baby is born and is healthy. If you'd like to talk to me, I am here.
My kids are now 25 and 30 and yes you do move on, you do get over it, but it's there in the back of your mind, you dont actually ever forget but you can move on with your life.