Firebolt,
I am a long time recovered alcoholic, and when I read you dumped his vodka, I just want to say,,I used to think I could not LIVE without alcohol.
I know he is behaving like an evil unlikable child, but he is beyond your reach.
He needs a serious detox and recovery, and fighting with you distracts him
from what is really happening.
His alcohol consumption is no longer on your lists of things to track.
Put it down now, and start living your life.
Facebook seems to be such a different experience to me.
I talk to friendly people and keep up with relatives.
That is a good thing. All the drama happening there, I just do not see that.
Try to think of yourself outside of his life from now on.
Imagine you are already 12 days from now, what would you be doing?
Oh yeah, go to the girlfriends house.
I am so glad you are choosing life over this.
You have your future to work on now..
Keep doing the next best thing for yourself.
It is all you can do, in the end.
Beth