what does it say when we have two potential classifications for our chosen partner, one being ALCOHOLIC and the other @SSHOLE?
are YOU happy? are you happy WITH HIM? do you look forward to time together? enjoy each other's company? perfectly content just to hang out together? if absolutely nothing else about him changed, if how he is TODAY is how would he always be, is that good enough? is HE good enough? AS IS?
that is what matters.
IMHO.