Hi Crazed,
Like I said, the location of the tattoo seems significant to me, in a good way, like she no longer feels the need to hide who she is. Surely this is one of the most important steps in recovery.
I am sorry if I put you in a position to defend yourself. And I really believe if you two give each other some space to recover you can both have a beautiful future, apart or together.
Thanks for your understanding..