You don't have to confide in anyone, if you don't want to. Maybe over time you'll figure out how to approach it, but there's no rush. What works for everyone else may not work for you. Personally, I only told 1 person and then just made it all up to me to handle the situation. I don't want to give anyone bad advice but leaving it all up to me, to sink or swim, helped. I didn't want to risk people holding my hand and prolonging it, if that makes sense. List out the pros and cons and work from there. You'll do what's best for you.