The biggest issue I had with this was the sleep over expectation. However, my husband did not come home last night, and I have not heard from him. Therefore, I had to find someone to watch the girls tomorrow, as no idea where he will be. I didn't think it was fair to ask this person to watch 3 kids.
Anyway, neice called today and she and my daughter figured this out- she will be dropped off here about 4, then go with us to sil's. According to neice, her mom will be done work at 10 and she will go home with her. I hope neice is telling the truth as it will be mighty awkward if she does not. Oh well. I made it clear that she is not sleeping over here.