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Old 07-09-2013, 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted by lessgravity View Post
Did it stay getting easier?

Anyone?
has for me.

not always 100% effortless but that's only when i don't do the 'R' (Recognition) bit right, and that usually falls into place after a few seconds.

in my opinion, monitoring your addictive feelings too closely might be counter-productive - it might be beast tactic to trick you into thinking you're no longer addicted, so can have a drink or three.

i've already posted things about this here so won't bash on, but that did happen to me, any time i felt an urge to measure my addiction, or interact with my AV in any way, it wasn't coming from a healthy place.

fine for the AV to try to get my attention - for me to seek out interactions with it, not so great, i found.

just my experiences there - if i'm never going to drink again. why would it matter how easy or hard it is, how strong or weak my beast is, or how bad or cured my addiction is?

those variables only matter if i'm falling in to the mindset of planning a few drinks in the future...
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