that's fine

but

so as to learn a lot regarding alcoholism

I would recommend you buy this very inexpensive book - AA Big Book

both of you should read it

neither of you will be disappointed with the much information attained


when I was running amuck
and
was in jail due to my drinking
my wife called my Sponsor
he told her that she may wish to read the AA Big Book
she has always said "that it helped her in many ways to understand the drunk"
and
where she stood
and
what she could do for herself and me

Mountainman