Originally Posted by
DreamsofSerenity 
Agree with defriending and deleting any reminders, BUT I recommend keeping anything negative and crazy you can refer back to on days you find yourself magically thinking about your A.
I know what you mean. I kept the private message thread that we shared during the duration of out knowing each other (2 years). None of the messages were particularly negative, though the last one is a wake up call. When I read it, it reminds me that he cannot give me what I need -- and that I mustn't give him my time and energy.