Originally Posted by
Dee74 you must be driving yourself mad.
check out those links I posted before. Why not get some help?
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I am spending to much of my days focusing on this issue, and it is physically and mentally draining. I did check out those links, and they had good information.
I don't think calling any hotline or paying for counselling will do any good. I don't even know if it happened, and there was no leakage or anything on my underwear or any other evidence. The bruises wont be taken seriously, I got a bruise on my forearm 2 days ago and have no idea how I got it, so imagine the possibilities when drunk.
I am getting tested soon, this will comfort me. The anal irritation I had after that night was most likely due to the diarreah and loose bowel movements I had regularly. I mentioned that my bowel movement the next morning felt weird, but I was still drunk at that time too and thought nothing of it (maybe it was just nothing).
Dealing with the unknown is going to be a tough task, and will effect me forever. This is a huge lesson for me.