Thank you everyone for your advice/opinions. Dandylion, you are so right. This situation has made my depression/anxiety sky rocket. I know this all too well. I donot need to be in this situation at all. Its taking a very serious toll on me. Ive been thru the domestic violence thing before with my last husband. I had a restraining order on him-he was physically abusive. he is now deceased. all I want in this world is to live out the rest of my time here in peace.I know that nobody can do anything about this situation but me and God. All I ask for is someone to talk to (moral support)and prayers. I thank you all for talking to me. I will be in and out of this site often, and I appreciate any and all support.