Old 07-06-2013, 07:40 PM
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I know the name of the game is to document, document, document, but in the meantime until our November hearing, I don't want to feel powerless or constantly fearing that my child will be in danger (I know she will not report anything to me).
Hello butterfly,

I think that you should continue to write all these things down.
Also, it seems to me she told you A LOT of information.
No, she will probably not say anything she thinks might hurt her new husband,
but I think you could continue to talk to her.
If he is going down hill, it is only a matter of time before this ship sinks.

You are powerless over any action they take,
but you can continue to talk to the new wife.
Not saying fake a relationship, just be your sons mother,-- I wanted to know
everything about this woman in my ex's life, which meant in my children's life.
Turns out she loved the kids and wanted to keep them safe too.

Keep talking, keep writing, keep doing the next right thing.

Lots of time in between now and November, keep your calm.
Search for serenity and what you can control.
You can do this butterfly.

Beth
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