Well, I didn't watch the clip, but than you, Zen, for the thread.
Lexiecat, I saw myself in your comment! Darn it. :P That is what I do..... have always done, when my obsessive loves fall apart (because they've always been seriously damaged people).
I can't get over them, I believe I'll be alone on an ice floe forever, I flashback on them continuously, even when I'm trying to switch my thoughts. (me and my thoughts ---->
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DAMMIT I am FRUSTRATED with myself.
And wish I could get OK with the state of single-hood. Cuz actually, I'm doing OK; better, actually than when I was walking on eggshells around an angry drunk, praying for a change in him.