We did decide that if they aren't allowed or choose not to participate, they could still write him a letter to know how he affects them and how they feel.
Thank you again everyone,
I think this would be very very helpful for them, with or without an intervention.
I grew up in an alcoholic home, and the rules were,
Don't trust.
Don't feel.
Don't talk.
so, if they could safely express their love, fears and concerns,
I think it would be a great idea.
Of course, discuss this with your counselor first.
I have no idea, because I started drinking as a teenager, but I would hope by
breaking the silent rules of the house, and having it all out there in the open
it would help the kids tremendously.
It costs a great deal emotionally to have a parent that is an alcoholic.
I also have two children that are addicted, one in recovery and one going again this
Friday.
I hope it ends with their generation.
Thank you for reading my story
Beth
