hey danielle.
my advice would be to talk to your husband. i spent years hiding bottles and ditching the empties in grocery store bins. my addiction got progressively worse, and i am now 15 days sober.
having your husband 'on side' would be immensely helpful as there is someone in your family who knows everything and supports your recovery. the admission is terrifying, but the relief i feel now is incredible.
i know everyone's situation is different, but do you think you could give it a go?