Hi Lee
I am currently with a RABF, sober for almost 6 months.
Very early days in his sobriety.
I was with him for approx. 3 years as an active alcoholic.
I broke up with him because I made a choice that I didn't want to be with an active alcoholic.
We had roughly 3 months apart & he decided on his own he wanted to be sober.
It's important to focus on our own recoveries & let them do the work they need to remain sober.
I know there is a risk of relapse & that is something that I will face if it happens but I try not to live in fear of it.
One day at a time.