I read your other thread. Pretty tough to read because I was there. Now I'm here.
In retrospect, here's what I have to say.
If things don't change now, they will get worse and far more complicated.
I may not be sitting in the same circle as Cyranoak but perhaps the 5th or 6th circle? I don't know but it sucks.
Much like m1 said, the AW will say anything to salvage something. My AW told me not too long ago that she got sober because she was afraid of me leaving her. She's back to drinking...
I honestly hate saying this but, man, you have an opportunity in front of you to change your life for ever. Make the right decision. Take your time. Think about you. Think about tomorrow.
I love me and my son more than anything but a day doesn't go by where I wish I had made a better choice and that is a hard concept to deal with. Every day.