"never just stresses me out too much....so I'm not going to think in terms of never"
Yep that has been my theory... NOW I see why you must think in NEVER terms. It is the only way to fully expose every facet of the beast. Without the NEVER you are still giving the beast a MAYBE. My beast loves MAYBE.
uh...yeah...gives a whole new meaning to the "family BBQ" you mentioned. Hee, hee...