Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
That trip was supposed to be a gift to him from me.
who paid for it? from what you shared YOU did all the work, all the planning, you created an entire vision, complete with notes and treasure hunts, etc. just how much did HE really participate? it's possible....me surmising here, that you wanted him to give you such a gift but because he didn't or whatever, you bought yourself the gift and put his name on the tag.
TO him, FROM her, not the other way around, is what she said.
Either way, it was something he knew was planned, and for which you had put out money. Hopefully that is something he will make right eventually.