Thanks Hammer! Got it. I wasn't discounting the being at the same
church thing- just saying that it was ironic that we have been going there all this time w out crossing paths and same w the gym. And now that we have crossed paths I am awfully glad.
And it shows me that for all the years I tried to force things to happen and for w solutions w AH or anyone, what I should have done all along and have tired hard to do for some time now is just go with things and the whole "more will be revealed" mentality.
I can't control anything except what I do Andy attitude and that's what I will keep focussing on. And the rest I guess will be what it is. It's a nice change to see unexpected stuff being good since I have had a lifetimes worth of unexpected crap it seems. But then again haven't we all?!
