Fenris I'm so sorry that this has happened to you but thank you for your cautionary post. I'm at just over 100 days and just recently AV, who has been remarkably quiet until now, has started muttering that I can now moderate and have "just one or two". Why I would have just one or two when that wasn't possible before I don't know but I've slammed him out of my ear thanks to you.
I hope that you'll keep working on your sobriety for yourself and your daughter's future.