Hi there...Congrats to you on remaining sober...My ex-bf recently got out of treatment. I stood by him before (those times were horrible), during and after. He's a differnet person for the better, but are relationship was struggling and he broke it off. The fact that I sometimes go out and drink (very rare) bothers him to the point where he can't do it anymore. I've changed so many things about myself so our lives together could be great. I've lost him. He wants to remain friends but it's too hard for me.