I agree with Jeni. It's in themonthly support groups that i've made the closest friends. It takes time but in the monthly groups you build up a rapport.I've even kept in touch with people from some of the groups I joined but didn't stay sober in. I don't use chat.don't take it personally though, many people are wary or even just wanting to use SR for info.It takes time but you will meet people you'll click with