Joy & SadSoul - so excited about decorating! Hubby has even bought new sofa's !! (we both work but I am the breadwinner so tend to buy all the home stuff & pay bills - so sometimes feel like I'm just a walking wallet. Which isn't fair as he pulls his weight by doing all the cooking etc). The fact he has bought the sofa's is just such a treat - I don't have to worry about that bill.
Ladies I have no words of wisdom except to look at what makes you unhappy & then see if in 6 months you still feel the same way. I know that when I've been drunk I have said some horrible things to my hubby that (a) I didn't mean and (b) couldn't remember the next day.
SadSoul you have such a long history together I hope you go from soldiering on to walking in step.